Closeted CD Seeking Same

Jeg taler

Engelsk

Jeg beskriver mig selv som

I am a closeted crossdresser seeking to meet (and play with!) kindred spirits on the Chicago Northside.

So a little about me... Bi-sexual (70/30) and NOT gender-dysphoric, I discovered my love for all things silk, satin, and lace at a young age (by virtue of having shared a hamper with two sisters lol). The look and feel of their girly things both excited and calmed me.

Later, muddling through puberty, I would also discover that dressing turned me on... like, a lot. I can still picture watching the dark spot form on the front of the white satin panties I was wearing the very first time I actually cam.

In the years that followed, I would have rich and meaningful romantic relationships with both men and women, but never did I dare show ANYONE my secret underwear collection. Deeply troubled by the incongruity of my peccadilloes, I would at times try to resist the urge for some weeks or months, contenting myself by buying lingerie sized for my partner instead -- also extremely fun for me, btw :)

Then in college I met and fell in love with an amazing woman -- clever, kind, supportive, and sexy -- and ultimately told her everything. To my mild surprise (and great relief!), she did not immediately run screaming from the dorm. On the contrary, she was...

Out of time. Rest to follow soon!

Cheers :)

Underskriv

Scorpio

Min kropstype er

Atletisk

Min højde er

180 cm

Mine øjne er

Brun

Min etnicitet er

Kaukasisk

Min civilstand er

Single

Jeg har børn

Nej

Jeg vil have børn

Ja

Mit bedste karaktertræk er

Læber

Mit hår er

Mørkebrun

Villig til at flytte

Nej

Mit uddannelsesniveau er

Universitetsgrad

Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er

Selvstændig

Mit speciale er

Finans / handel

Min jobtitel er

Strategic Consultant

Jeg bor

Med værelseskammerat(er)

Hjemme

Venner kommer ofte forbi

Jeg er ryger

Ja - ofte

Jeg drikker

Ja - til fester

I gymnasiet var jeg

Cool fyr

Min sociale opførsel er

Komisk, Flirtende, Venlig, Observerende, Uadvendt, Party Starter, Pyroman

Mine interesser og hobbier er

Camping, Gå på diskotek / barer, Dans, Spise til middag, Familie, Spil, Havearbejde, Læring, Film, Musik, Læsning, Teater, Rejser, Tv, Frivilligt

Min idé om at have det sjovt er

Diskotek / barer, Drikke, Være sammen med venner, Gå på casino, Tage til koncert, Gå på museum, Feste, Klæde sig ud, Læse en bog, Afslappende, Prøve noget nyt

En ideel første date ville være

Dinner, drinks, dressing?

Jeg har altid villet prøve

Absolutely everything.

Mine venner beskriver mig som

Venlig, Cool

Min religion er

Jøde

Jeg deltager i tjenester

På ferier

Mit mål i livet er

To be happy, healthy, successful, significant, and loved.

Min form for humor er

Banal, Snu, Tør / sarkastisk, Venlig, Fjollet, Obskur, Sadistisk, Slapstick, Fræk

I tv ser jeg altid

Nyheder, Tegnefilm, Dokumentarer, Dramaer, Sitcoms, Film

Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en

Handling, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Dokumentar, Animation, Thriller

Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til

Ambient, Klassisk, Dance, Elektronisk, Jazz, Pop, Rock

Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid

Biografi, Fiktion, Historie, Natur, Filosofi, Politisk, Satire, Videnskab, Science Fiction

Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er

Several standard deviations greater than the mean

Hvad finder du attraktivt?

Skaldethed, Empati, Flirtende, Flot udseende, Dygtighed, Humor, Intelligens, Særheder, Magt, Følsomhed, Spontanitet, Omtanke, Morsom

Hvad leder du efter?

Coming to grips with who I am (and what I like/want) has been... a challenge. There were nights as an adolescent when I would cry myself to sleep, pray not to be this way, or curse God for making me so. When I picture that confused and frightened little boy all these years later, I smile bitter-sweet, and am overwhelmed by the desire to somehow embrace this sad specter -- to squeeze him tight, look directly into his eyes, and with the calm and confidence that comes only from knowing, tell him: "Everything is going to be okay. It gets so much better -- better than you ever thought possible -- just hang in there, just hang in there and you'll see..."

AND SO, what I'm really ultimately looking for here is simply the chance to get to know SOMEONE LIKE ME; to understand and learn from their unique experience of our common road; and the kinship of species.

And of course, I also want to play!!! Lets go shopping, have a fashion show, do each others makeup, whisper about our fantasies, and whatever else you have in mind!

If a physical attraction develops between us, I'm down to get down ;)

Perhaps we will even become lovers, and indulge in all manner of carnal delight... Who knows?

Hvilken type forhold leder du efter?

Ven, Dato, Intim