Closeted CD Seeking Same

Je sais parler

Anglais

Je me décrirais comme

I am a closeted crossdresser seeking to meet (and play with!) kindred spirits on the Chicago Northside.

So a little about me... Bi-sexual (70/30) and NOT gender-dysphoric, I discovered my love for all things silk, satin, and lace at a young age (by virtue of having shared a hamper with two sisters lol). The look and feel of their girly things both excited and calmed me.

Later, muddling through puberty, I would also discover that dressing turned me on... like, a lot. I can still picture watching the dark spot form on the front of the white satin panties I was wearing the very first time I actually cam.

In the years that followed, I would have rich and meaningful romantic relationships with both men and women, but never did I dare show ANYONE my secret underwear collection. Deeply troubled by the incongruity of my peccadilloes, I would at times try to resist the urge for some weeks or months, contenting myself by buying lingerie sized for my partner instead -- also extremely fun for me, btw :)

Then in college I met and fell in love with an amazing woman -- clever, kind, supportive, and sexy -- and ultimately told her everything. To my mild surprise (and great relief!), she did not immediately run screaming from the dorm. On the contrary, she was...

Out of time. Rest to follow soon!

Cheers :)

Signe

Scorpion

Ma silhouette est

Athlétique

Ma taille est

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Mes yeux sont

Marrons

Mon origine ethnique est

Caucasienne

Ma situation maritale est

Célibataire

J'ai des enfants

Non

Je veux des enfants

Oui

Ce que j'ai de mieux

Lèvres

Mes cheveux sont

Bruns foncés

Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs

Non

Mon niveau d'éducation est

Diplôme d'études supérieures

Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est

Auto-entrepreneur

Mon domaine de compétence est

Finance / Affaires

Mon titre de fonction est

Strategic Consultant

Je vis

En colocation

Chez moi

Il y a souvent des copains à la maison

Je fume

Oui - souvent

Je bois de l'alcool

Oui - socialement

Au lycée, j'étais un/e

Cool

Socialement, je suis plutôt

Comique, Séducteur, Sympa, Observateur, Ouvert, Fêtard, Impulsif

Mes passions et loisirs sont

Camper, Fêtes, Danse, Dîner , Famille, Jeux, Jardinage, Apprendre, Films, Musique, Lecture, Théâtre, Voyages, Télévision, Bénévolat

Un bon moment pour moi c'est

Sorties en boîte / tour des bars, Boire un coup, Sortir avec des amis, Aller au casino, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée, Faire la fête, Se déguiser, Lire, Me relaxer, Faire de nouvelles expériences

Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait

Dinner, drinks, dressing?

J'ai toujours voulu essayer

Absolutely everything.

Mes amis me décrivent comme

Sympa, Cool

Ma religion c'est

Juif

Je vais à la messe

Pendant les vacances

Mon but dans la vie c'est

To be happy, healthy, successful, significant, and loved.

Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt

Vicelard, Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Neuneu, Obscur/e, Sadique, Bouffon, Coquin/e

A la télévision, je regarde

Actualités, Dessins animés, Documentaires, Drames, Sitcoms, Films

Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours

Action, Science-fiction, Comédies, Drames, Documentaires, Animation, Thrillers

Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est

Musique ambientale, Classique, Dance, Electro, Jazz, Pop, Rock

Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est

Biographies, Fictions, Histoire, Nature, Philosophie, Politique, Satires, Sciences, Science-fiction

Mon idée du fun

Several standard deviations greater than the mean

Que trouvez-vous attirant?

Audace, Empathie, Séduction, Beauté, Talents, Humour, Intelligence, Etrangeté, Pouvoir, Sensibilité, Spontanéité, Délicatesse, Bon sens

Que recherchez-vous?

Coming to grips with who I am (and what I like/want) has been... a challenge. There were nights as an adolescent when I would cry myself to sleep, pray not to be this way, or curse God for making me so. When I picture that confused and frightened little boy all these years later, I smile bitter-sweet, and am overwhelmed by the desire to somehow embrace this sad specter -- to squeeze him tight, look directly into his eyes, and with the calm and confidence that comes only from knowing, tell him: "Everything is going to be okay. It gets so much better -- better than you ever thought possible -- just hang in there, just hang in there and you'll see..."

AND SO, what I'm really ultimately looking for here is simply the chance to get to know SOMEONE LIKE ME; to understand and learn from their unique experience of our common road; and the kinship of species.

And of course, I also want to play!!! Lets go shopping, have a fashion show, do each others makeup, whisper about our fantasies, and whatever else you have in mind!

If a physical attraction develops between us, I'm down to get down ;)

Perhaps we will even become lovers, and indulge in all manner of carnal delight... Who knows?

Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?

Vrai‧e ami‧e, Rendez-vous, Relation intime