Closeted CD Seeking Same
Jessica4CD
Chicago, Illinois | Travesti Buscando Travesti
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I am a closeted crossdresser seeking to meet (and play with!) kindred spirits on the Chicago Northside.
So a little about me... Bi-sexual (70/30) and NOT gender-dysphoric, I discovered my love for all things silk, satin, and lace at a young age (by virtue of having shared a hamper with two sisters lol). The look and feel of their girly things both excited and calmed me.
Later, muddling through puberty, I would also discover that dressing turned me on... like, a lot. I can still picture watching the dark spot form on the front of the white satin panties I was wearing the very first time I actually cam.
In the years that followed, I would have rich and meaningful romantic relationships with both men and women, but never did I dare show ANYONE my secret underwear collection. Deeply troubled by the incongruity of my peccadilloes, I would at times try to resist the urge for some weeks or months, contenting myself by buying lingerie sized for my partner instead -- also extremely fun for me, btw :)
Then in college I met and fell in love with an amazing woman -- clever, kind, supportive, and sexy -- and ultimately told her everything. To my mild surprise (and great relief!), she did not immediately run screaming from the dorm. On the contrary, she was...
Out of time. Rest to follow soon!
Cheers :)
So a little about me... Bi-sexual (70/30) and NOT gender-dysphoric, I discovered my love for all things silk, satin, and lace at a young age (by virtue of having shared a hamper with two sisters lol). The look and feel of their girly things both excited and calmed me.
Later, muddling through puberty, I would also discover that dressing turned me on... like, a lot. I can still picture watching the dark spot form on the front of the white satin panties I was wearing the very first time I actually cam.
In the years that followed, I would have rich and meaningful romantic relationships with both men and women, but never did I dare show ANYONE my secret underwear collection. Deeply troubled by the incongruity of my peccadilloes, I would at times try to resist the urge for some weeks or months, contenting myself by buying lingerie sized for my partner instead -- also extremely fun for me, btw :)
Then in college I met and fell in love with an amazing woman -- clever, kind, supportive, and sexy -- and ultimately told her everything. To my mild surprise (and great relief!), she did not immediately run screaming from the dorm. On the contrary, she was...
Out of time. Rest to follow soon!
Cheers :)
Signo
Escorpio
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
Atlético
Mi altura es
5' 11 (1.8 m)
Mis ojos son
Marrones
Mi raza es
Caucásico
Mi situación marital es
Soltero
Tengo hijos
No
Quiero tener hijos
Si
Mi Mejor característica es
Labios
Mi pelo es
Marrón Oscuro
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
No
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Diploma Universitario
Mi situación laboral actual es
Auto Empleo
Mi especialidad es
Financias / Negocios
Mi trabajo es como
Strategic Consultant
Vivo en
Con compañero/s de piso
En casa
Los amigos visitan a menudo
Soy Fumador
Si - A menudo
Soy Bebedor
Si - Socialmente
Personalidad
En el instituto, era
Del Tipo Simpático
Socialmente, me describiría como
Cómico, Coqueto/a, Amistoso, Observador, Extrovertido/a, Quien comienza las fiestas, Quien siempre enciende el fuego
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Ir de camping, Clubes / Ir de bares, Bailar, Cenar, Familia, Juegos, Jardineria, Aprender, Películas, Música, Leer, Teatro, Viajar, Televisión, Voluntariado
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Clubs / Bares, Beber, Salir con amigos, Ir al Casino, Ir a un Concierto, Ir a un Museo, Ir de fiesta, Jugar a vestirme elegante, Leer un Libro, Relajarse, Probar cosas nuevas
Mi primera cita ideal sería
Dinner, drinks, dressing?
Siempre he querido probar
Absolutely everything.
Mis amigos me describen como
Amistoso, Genial
Puntos de Vista
Mi religión es
Judío
Voy a la iglesia
De vacaciones
Mi meta en la vida
To be happy, healthy, successful, significant, and loved.
Mi sentido del humor es
Irónico/a, Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Amistoso, Bobo, Oscuro, Sádico/a, Payasadas, Obsceno
Gustos
En la TV, siempre veo
Noticias, Dibujos Animados, Documentales, Dramas, Comedias de Situación, Películas
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Acción, Ciencia Ficción, Comedia , Drama , Documentales, Animación, Suspense
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Ambiente, Clásica, Baile, Electrónica, Jazz, Pop, Rock
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Biografías, Ficción, Historia, Naturaleza, Filosofía, Política , Sátira, Ciencia , Ciencia Ficción
Mi idea de diversión es
Several standard deviations greater than the mean
Estoy buscando a
¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Audacia, Empatía, Coquetería, Buena Imagen, Grandes Habilidades, Humor, Inteligencia, Rarezas, Poder, Sensibilidad, Espontaneidad, Detallista, Ingenio
¿Qué estás buscando?
Coming to grips with who I am (and what I like/want) has been... a challenge. There were nights as an adolescent when I would cry myself to sleep, pray not to be this way, or curse God for making me so. When I picture that confused and frightened little boy all these years later, I smile bitter-sweet, and am overwhelmed by the desire to somehow embrace this sad specter -- to squeeze him tight, look directly into his eyes, and with the calm and confidence that comes only from knowing, tell him: "Everything is going to be okay. It gets so much better -- better than you ever thought possible -- just hang in there, just hang in there and you'll see..."
AND SO, what I'm really ultimately looking for here is simply the chance to get to know SOMEONE LIKE ME; to understand and learn from their unique experience of our common road; and the kinship of species.
And of course, I also want to play!!! Lets go shopping, have a fashion show, do each others makeup, whisper about our fantasies, and whatever else you have in mind!
If a physical attraction develops between us, I'm down to get down ;)
Perhaps we will even become lovers, and indulge in all manner of carnal delight... Who knows?
AND SO, what I'm really ultimately looking for here is simply the chance to get to know SOMEONE LIKE ME; to understand and learn from their unique experience of our common road; and the kinship of species.
And of course, I also want to play!!! Lets go shopping, have a fashion show, do each others makeup, whisper about our fantasies, and whatever else you have in mind!
If a physical attraction develops between us, I'm down to get down ;)
Perhaps we will even become lovers, and indulge in all manner of carnal delight... Who knows?
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Amigo/a , Cita, Íntimos